To the attention of:
Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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My daughter’s behavior and her course of actions grew increasingly aggressive. Thinking about the abuse she had to live with was not acceptable to me, it was scary to hear her ask for my help and I knew that abuse was the reason for her behavior changes. I went to my baby’s pediatrician for advice. She directed me to the hospital to get it documented. I did that twice. The first time I went was because my baby was acting out some pretty alarming behavior. My daughter was standing by my side looking into a mirror she yelled and was very frightened. She repeated to me “mom do you see her?” I observed her behavior, it was alarming to me. I asked my daughter what was wrong. She said mom do you see her? I said who baby? She said “mayonna, she’s got a gun and she wants to kill me.” The person she saw shooting herself was herself. Of all the abuse that I have witnessed I was not prepared to deal with the thought of her hurting herself. For her father to reject the fact that our daughter was hurting inside from him and others was angering me. It angered me more that he wouldn’t recognize the harm that was being caused from his own children from another woman. Since he didn’t want to help his daughter I sought after the help for her. She was to be seen by three dr. in a series of unfortunate circumstances. There are trained professionals out there but they can’t be utilized if the other parent refuses the treatment. He was afraid that his daughter would tell them the truth and then he would lose his other children. He fought diligently to avoid the professionals that I had lined up to help my daughter. He went as far as to say that I coerced my daughter into saying all the bad things she has said about her father and the people that was hurting her. The more I tried to protect her from the abuse the more rejection I received from children and youth.
I sought out a case worker to help identify the abuse and receive protection for me and my daughter. The women who came to my house as a representative to the agency were bennesa macardo. She was nice and friendly, she acknowledged my daughters verification of the abuse and told me that everything would be fine. Court day arrived, I finely thought it would all be over. No more tears, no more threats no more strange alarming behavior form my daughter, it was all going to end. Nothing prepared me for what was about to happen. The women who were supposed to protect my daughter testified that she did not feel that there was any concern for abuse projected by the baby’s daddy. Mary jachovich, supervisor of my case worker three days later lied in to protecting her employee. You have lied to protect a lie in the courts, because I questioned your ability to see the truth. Your anger provides me the answer. I was told by C.Y.S. supervisor, if you don’t stop seeking out documentation for abuse I will grant custody to daddy. Oppps, she screwed up in her anger at the hospital, she corrected her words and said I will suggest to the court that daddy receive custody. Who has the power here? No matter what I tell you towards their approach to this case, their decisions and corrupted policies will not change. So many lies and no honesty to themselves or our children. Children and youth have a political partnership with the court system. Question is, does it go all the way to the Supreme Court? Does mother supreme safeguard over each level to assure they protect the order and power of their agency even if they are wrong? You bet they do. That is why a lawyer is unwilling to attack the moralities of the agency. There is too much fault in the system to protect one from abuse. A lawyer is unwilling to seek retribution because they will lose contribution.
With all the pain and injustice to the parent that had lost a child or the child who has lost a parent, retribution justifies the actions of the C.Y.S. Agency. They have made decisions knowingly towards families that have been victimized and the victimization continues by their inability to say they are wrong. The court depends on the agency to keep order on families who can’t live civil, but at the price to whom? The lawyer that I had received at a pro-bono price due to my finances was not working for me. I was told that she was the best around to handle children’s cases because she worked side by side with children and youth. So what is the problem with that? You would think that this is a dream team. It could be if in the case it where C.Y.S. on your side. I will have to prove without a reasonable doubt that children and youth are wrong.
I have been under attack to save face for me and my daughter. I didn’t find out there was a conflict of interest with my lawyer until my second trip to the hospital. Why did she continue to represent me knowing that there is a predisposition in the outcome of my case. Several things stuck out when speaking to my lawyer, the first time consultation with her the first thing she asked was “so, what are you looking to get out of this?” I replied custody. She replied “that will never happen” then I knew. I realized that this women’s best interest was for herself and her reputation and the reputation of the agency she worked for. I have been threatened by c.y.s. to step down from protecting my daughter. These where detestable people, some bad people who didn’t like to be inconvenienced with interruption in there way of being in control. No wonder they believed the daddy, he exuded control.
Remember this, C.Y.S. can’t be stop once they have made a decision against you. No one can stop children and youth from shielding an abuser from your child. However if you cross their power to rule they will take all your credibility, then your child, and you have nothing to defend yourself with. I usta think highly of children and youth. I called out children and youth to help me protect my daughter so many times in fact that they said I cried wolf and my cries will no longer be heard. I saw that my daughter was hurting, others have testified seeing her in defensive situations with her daddy. C.Y.S. was sucked into the charm of an abuser who knew how to minimize his appearances as an abuser by projecting himself as a victim. My babies father most definitely new how to hurt me, it wasn’t hard for him to take my baby and never let me see her again. He was backed by the vary people I went to for help. My baby is being detained from me because they felt remorse for my baby’s daddy. He cried to be protected from me.
C.Y.S. promote levels of abuse that are acceptable to their polices. There is no abuse acceptable in my guiding principle as mother. C.Y.S does not have the Childs best interest written into their policy. Their policy is to determine the stereotype of an defective parent, then isolate the parent from that child no matter the consequences to the child. The policy is to ensure the Decisions C.Y.S. make stand solid. The involvement of the exploitations by the agency and their court are united. By defending your parental rights, intimidation is circulated by their unity. Decision to protect their authority and credibility to the agency comes from court. It’s time to break it down tear it apart and standup to those who are wrong. I didn’t stop defending my baby and now she’s gone. When you have nothing, you have nothing to lose.
If I had been abusive to my child like my baby’s daddy is to his women and his children, there would have been no conflict between us. We would have hurt our child and no one would have stepped in. Sometimes children and youth get it wrong. Since they elected not to undue their wrong because of the embarrassment it will cause them, it is as set in stone, I will never be able to defend or prove my case. So my daughter and I both lose, c.y.s. get another successful win and abuse still goes unchecked.
Are they implying that I am causing more damage to her by defending her accusations towards her father and the abusive people around her. My daughter and I were inseparable. The bond we have developed was amazingly strong and we both felt secure together. I knew that her father and her family was not as concerned about her education and well-being as I was. Just ask his children. His way of helping his children was to call them names like your dumb, idiot, jerk off. My own baby came home from visitation and called me a stupid bitch. I asked her why she said that, she said her dad calls me that all the time. I know that to be the truth because when we were still together he referred to his ex-wife as jerk off. His own kids eventually started to do the same. They hated there mother in part by the hate their father pushed on them. They felt anger towards their mother because their mother abandoned them. She kicked him out and handed her children over to us a month later after we started dating. Why can’t children and youth see the signs. Why do they pray on innocent people to put their power of control out their? They have made me an example. Made to show others that they are backed by court. Whatever decisions I have made to protect my children it did not warrant punishing me from my daughter. Whatever their defenses is I know I can defend and prove that they are wrong. If I prove that they are wrong do you think I will get my daughter back? Do you think I will get an apology for my discomfort and the discomfort of my children and family. Will my daughter get compensated for their crooked policy and aggression towards my pain and the pain of my family? There is no ending to this story until somebody is willing to step up.
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